STUPID OR SMART

Hii!!my name is Nur Fadilah.you can call me fadhil.I just want to share to you what do I have in my mind.talking about stupid or smart.have you ever heard story about solomon island?let me tell you about solomon island.in the solomon island the native speaker there want to apart of the forest to cultivation but they got the problem, they got dificulty to cut away the big trees, strong trees and the hard roots.so, what they do there?They just gether around the big tree and some of them climbing the tree and they just said the derty words and bad words with the loud voice to the tree. “you are the bad tree! You are the dumb tree! And you are the fucking tree! “ and you know what? Second by second, time by time and day by day the tree shrinks, withers and it dies just on it own.
Ladies and gantelmen, the tree is GOD’s creation.it has soul, it can hear what do we say without we realise.so, what about us?we have soul, we have love, and we have special gifts from the GOD and that is grace of the GOD. If you know we have killed our little brothers, our little sisters, our sons, our daughters or even our friends without we realise.we have killed their mind like solomon island.let me tell you a little bit my bad experience.when I was elementary school in the third grade.I was so stupid, I feel so farther and farther behind in school.my classmates called me ”dumb” and it hurt my heart altough that is right.nothing wrong with my friends.actually in my class I could read but not smooth like my friends, I could count but not as smart as my friends and I was so naughty in my class.I always fighting with my friends until black and blue and some of my friends always said to their mother after fighting with me and than their mother told to my mother that my son was beaten by your son.when I back to my house.all at once, without say anything my mother hit me until my lip bleed.and she said “ you were very naughty! Stupid ! just died! I never felt regret if you were died “.by doing this, it hurt my heart deeply.my mother plant the derty words in my mind.somethimes that words always pictured in my mind.yeah actually my mother did not know why I always fighting with my friends.if I tell her the reason, it just useless.
I got a problem not just in my house but in my class too.when my teacher enjoin on me to come forward to answer mathematics’ question.I could not answer the question.I just stand up and silent my voice.and you know what!my teacher just said “Astagfirullah..How could you be stupid! That is easy question! Lazy bones!” by doing this, my teacher plant the dirty words again in my mind and it hurt my heart again.actually I could not answer the question it does not mean I am stupid.I just have not understood the lesson.I need prosess to understand the lesson.so, a lot of dirty words in my mind.when my teacher called my mother in my school.my teacher showed my exam result to my mother and said “ madam, you can see the reasult of his exam! I can not stand anymore because your son was very naughty.naughty but smart it is never mind but your son not just naughty but stupid too”.by doing this, it hurt my heart very deeply and it hurt my mother’s heart.since my teacher talk like that.I promised to myself.I would study hard, I would study all out, I would make my mother proud of me, I would show to my teacher that I can do anything anyone can do, I would be the best of the best in my class and I WOULD PROVE IT TO YOU ALL.time by time and month and month, miracle comes to me.my teacher proud of me because I have a lot of improvement in my class and my mother always say the good words to me.so, as the time goes by..the dirty words in my mind lost on it own and I got state junior high school and I got state senior high school.
So, ladies and gantelmen.the question is..have you ever said dirty words to your son, dauter, little brothers, little sisters or even your students?whatever the aswered I believe that word is not from your heart.
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